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Believe in your self first

Are you wondering if online dating sites is for you as a woman or man? Maybe you have very nearly quit hope of finding that perfect partner for the clicky life?

As a Christian, it's important to understand that God has a program and a purpose for the lives (Jeremiah). Than we would like for ourselves he wants a lot more for us.

The Bible says "Love your neighbor as yourself" - which clearly means that we have to love and care for ourselves first, before we can really love anyone else.

Historically, Christians, and frequently women, have had a priority list that looks something similar to this:-

1. God

2. Husband/wife

3. Children

4. Family/parents

5. Work

6. Church

7. Myself & my very own needs

Do not be fooled - this may feel just like the Christian action to take - but this is not God's model for success.

Yes, we are called to offer, however not at the cost of reducing ourselves entirely. Jesus met his or her own requirements for food, housing, peaceful moments away with God - he didn't try to go all out without creating time for the essential things which allowed him to carry on.;

A Christian precedence list should read more like this:-

1. God

2. Myself

3. Husband/wife

4. Children

5. Family & friends

6. The idea is got by you!

Do not let any person define you - as an alternative, know who you're in Christ.

You'll not find it in just about any anyone, except in Jesus alone, if you're looking for meaning & purpose.

These things may help you when you find your marriage partner. So frequently in marriage, mistaken things can result in the destruction of a marriage. Your ministry and your work must come after your husband or wife. Do not set your ministry or job before your partner - they do not depend on you anyway - they depend on God. Currently your partner and children need you, your ministry or career can wait tomorrow. (Remember, no-one is every recognized to have said on the deathbed that they thought they'd spent more hours at the office!)

Remember, be kind to yourself.. Be involved in activities beyond work and relationship, keep your friendships, have attention, look after other people.

Then you'll have the confidence to be yourself in a relationship and still expect to be loved, if you can be certain that you're loveable. Here is the first step to beginning a successful and lasting relationship.

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This article was published by Jennifer Carter, owner of 1st Christian Dating Services